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Joe's-personal-comments: Esther Perel: The 3 Attachment Styles & Why You’re Struggling With Love!

joe's survival strategy: nobody tells me what to do with my time; nobody tells me where to go; MOm's strategy; I need to have something around to direct and be lawful about, and tell it how to transform. new relatinoships with Joe would be: he's not dancing to try to save his security from Mom... but he's still open to communicating or being there for his highest excitement. WE're not singular creatures; our conditioning defines who we are; who I am with defines who I am, and how I shoudl be, the conditioning of the moment, should not be up to my brain to hold certain set patterns of "this is the way I should act at the hot dog stand with Sandy who's serving me; I"ll just be gruff and direct and get the transaction done, because nobody messes with my time or my direction, etc." but actually I can allow the conditioning of each of my partnerships; and doing that is true-cosmic-love; it brings out the best in me and in them; both of us change and I

Fears of Projector-not-self relationships

 fear that I'm going to be dropped > fear of not participating > fear of not being able to control the generator's perception of how I use my energy > being stuck with controlling, manipulative partners and the same with my environment; get up and above all those thoughts;

How the nerves affect weight-management and stress-signals and orthodontics management

:  Teeth: April 9,-~2024:  keep my crown clean on the lip because it gathers particles there; nanos from spinach and such need to be brushed or flossed or water flossed. triboelectrics: use the back of your hand or move lips to stimulate the crown and stomach. This all represents fear of loss of control of the power from others sacral/ fear of insecurity; overreactive fear of my mistakes. my trigeminal nerve regulates my hormones and stress signals, which makes me so skinny when my permanent retainers broke. It represents being flaky about my commitments probably, or just not managing my fers and my sacral/money well enou

Banks, Generators, Manifestors, and Projectors - Human Design

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https://www.ganjingworld.com/video/1gh7re3jg7c2ZlisToryVYK8d1k31c   Projectors know about sacrifices very well. They are bitter from trying to 'make' more money with sacral-power they don't have. The solution is to work less and guide others more. Manifestors are willing to use force to make sacrifices, and are wondering why everybody else lacks the will-power like they do, to fit into the [in]terest-paradigm; Generators are too often willing to work at a job they hate, while they're body is ground down to a stub, because they'd rather not talk to a Projector who could guide them out of their confusion to a job they love.